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How to gain more positive skills and unfuck negative mentality (How to level up and train your character part 4)

As a former ABA therapist who is trained and graduated in human behaviour and ABA therapy, psychology.
Rewarding and conditioning good behaviours with desirable rewards can become stale and ineffective.

I.e. Calling our children to table for dinner to be rewarded with foods they like or scolding them if they fail to come when called, does not seem to be winning strategy for obedience nor family time.

As an adult or teenager, we are aware of what makes us unhappy , using pavlov conditioning as an example, we come to realise that we are often stimulated and offered unconscious priming to be accustomed to society, advertising and seek immediate rewards when offered. I.e seeing the sign of MacDonald can make your kid excited, or another example being able to get what you desire when being exposed to an opportunity,…

How to level up in real life: Personalities For Business

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Today in this episode of how to level up in real life, we are going to explore archetypical personalities through biblical/fictional archetypes.

Why not MBTI?
MBTI serve to analyse over 8 billion personalities through the mould of a handful and is inexcusable to be used as an archetypical analysis for the unique you and the special friends and families you have.

Why any MBTI lover can look into relevance through fictional/made up archetypes; Past learning experiences on MBTI or other character analyses will bring insight onto these personalities type; uncovering more than the novices and beginners, fret not, beginners alike can learn from characters that they are more keenly interested in -- especially during the beginning. This will be apt to speed growth and intuition throughout this journey.

In the previous three episodes in how to level up in real life;
We explore the following concepts:

1) Learning from your favourite hero/idol

2) Envisioning the blank spaces within i.e. from his beginning to his success, what did your hero did in between to uncover his potential.

3) Compensation: What is the difference between you and your hero, what sacrifices would you have to take, i.e. the difference between you and who you will like to be.


In The New Afterthought, we help you pick up your responsibility and turn them into tools. No more dread, stress and running away from your problems; we teach you how to analyse your dynamics through contextual thinking and archetypical personalities through stories and fictional archetypes.

We explore the uncovered instead of confining ourselves into the roads taken before.

Things we will uncover in the future:

  1. Writing/ learning fictional archetypes.
  2. Writing/Envisioning Situations/ Dreams and Scenarios 
  3. Learning Contextual Thinking
  4. Building Bridges between one another
  5. Building your potential to achieve who you want to be

Why Business and personalities?

We all have to make a living
However the way is walked by us.
We choose our behaviours, we shape ourselves, we uncover meanings that are untold by any other; we build our own narrative, our own story.

Making it personal:

These Archetypes, resemble and feels like you or your friends: To adapt the third party point of view is to able to detach from pervious grudge and resentment and being able to create a desire to make something more out of it and reach for more opportunities.



Before we end off,
How to level up in real life, not just analyses behaviours but teaches you how to adapt mentalities that uncover these personalities.

I.e the common saying, give a man a rod and he can fish for himself and feed himself for days, give a man a fish and he can have a meal for the day.

Business mentality often lapses with growth mentalities, pavlov conditioning, NLP, mindfulness and conscientiousness.

To be able to get to know your business mentality, you must be able to understand yourself and what you are willing to do; i.e. you don't jump into the boat business only to realise you do not know how to steer the wheel.

We can always learn step by step, or we can adapt the mentalities that help us uncover these skills intuitively;

i.e knowing your direction, your baggage, your goals can help you fast track your life and steer you in the right direction.

Being less reactionary and being more proactive helps you to make less mistake; i.e. less hundreds of thousands of dollars being flush away, losing connections that can help you along the way and losing passion for your dreams or dream career.

How to level up in real life:
https://www.kaerah.com/2020/01/how-to-level-up-and-train-your.html (part one)
https://www.kaerah.com/2020/02/superman-edition-of-breaking-ones-own.html (part two)

Power Up Guide:
https://www.kaerah.com/2020/02/power-up-guide-how-to-level-up-and.html

More guides below



Choosing your path:  
https://www.kaerah.com/2020/01/the-right-way-of-life-that-defies.html
Conviction and philosophy:
https://www.kaerah.com/2019/12/are-we-fated-or-are-we-destined-new.html
https://www.kaerah.com/2019/12/coward-vs-hero-it-is-not-just-matter-of.html
https://www.kaerah.com/2019/10/do-you-fear-death-or-lost-of-loved-ones.html

                                                                                                                                                 

Part 1: How to level up and train your character in real life:
https://www.kaerah.com/2020/01/how-to-level-up-and-train-your.html
https://www.kaerah.com/2019/11/mental-models-of-self-actualisation.html
https://www.kaerah.com/2019/12/how-to-handle-life-responsibilities-new.html

                                                                                                                                                 

whereby we teach you how to look at scripts of character through learning from a play:
https://www.kaerah.com/2019/11/realignment-of-truths-between-good-and.html
                                                                                                                                                 

Learning patterns of behaviours:
https://www.kaerah.com/2020/02/how-not-to-help-others-building-self.html
                                                                                                                                                 

Learning to cope with dysphoria:
https://www.kaerah.com/2019/10/healing-body-image-binge-eating-going.html
https://www.kaerah.com/2019/10/healing-body-with-beliefs-mind-and.html
https://www.kaerah.com/2019/09/the-new-afterthought-episode-2-healing.html
                                                                                                                                                 

Navigating and creating a journey/biography/legacy:
https://www.kaerah.com/2019/10/feeling-lost-growing-up-alone-how-to.html
                                                                                                                                                 

And to create a self growth journey through mapping and navigation of one's own desire and agenda:
https://www.kaerah.com/2019/11/how-to-write-












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