Counter Procrastination and Bad Behaviours

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Writing your learning script: Ingraining good and bad behaviours



How to gain more positive skills and unfuck negative mentality (How to level up and train your character part 4)

As a former ABA therapist who is trained and graduated in human behaviour and ABA therapy, psychology.
Rewarding and conditioning good behaviours with desirable rewards can become stale and ineffective.

I.e. Calling our children to table for dinner to be rewarded with foods they like or scolding them if they fail to come when called, does not seem to be winning strategy for obedience nor family time.

As an adult or teenager, we are aware of what makes us unhappy , using pavlov conditioning as an example, we come to realise that we are often stimulated and offered unconscious priming to be accustomed to society, advertising and seek immediate rewards when offered. I.e seeing the sign of MacDonald can make your kid excited, or another example being able to get what you desire when being exposed to an opportunity,…

slave trade apps in big tech and arrange marriages

 

Woman recounts her escape from brutal arranged marriage

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b3rvXwTFKTA&feature=share&fbclid=IwAR35zFlhzbJha7mljHc8pro73nUFEN2s33QdjigeUQk3SHKB0ZNX1KwxjK4


9 Epic Arguments Against Arranged Marriage From a Frustrated Indian!


The difference between arranged marriage and natural selection of one's preferred partner are the following:
For arranged marriage, the common symptoms are obligation, violence, deprivation of one's own family, change of roles and the expectation to fulfil husband and cultural expectation irregardless of personal concerns.
The reasons of engaging an arranged marriage have been portrayed to the likeness of matchmaking which is deeply untrue due to the difference in reasons: when is of age and by cultural and family cultural understanding imposed to find a suitable partner by society, racial, cultural, and traditional standards which might not be the most highly valued standards to one's own compatibility and well being.
Whereas in matchmaking, one can select his or her's preference irregardless of traditions which allows autonomous choice and exploration of his preference and insight into partners behaviour before domestic violence or authoritarian lifestyle can occur. One can also easily opt out of such program and is not pressured by his family and relatives and do not have to feel the shame and disappointment and difference in treatment should he or she fail to find a partner.
Most of all by opting out of an autonomous marriage, one is not just denied of his preference and comparability (in arrange marriage this might be considered but not as valued as the importance of marriage, setting up families, nor is it as important as cultural, transitional and family standards) but he or she also fails to develop rapport and partnership in courtship and romance that cannot be emulated by traditions or by a manual. By failing to do so, many marriage issues arises and violence might occur, due to traditional standard, the issue of hitting ones wife or children might be let off as if it is "good" discipline which defies human rights and the conditions of wellbeing.
Matchmaking differs from a cult like or forced or pressured arranged marriage that one can forsake the program even when comparability and desirability is present for the sake of other important reasons such as ones values, virtues, ways of being, different in priorities such as marriage and exploration.
By simply opting out of marriage, one can differ the games of relatives/marriage imposed by traditions and refuse the "necessary stress" that many have thought was impossible to forego, by allowing more time, understanding and wise decision making, all these stress and decisions not only can be refused or differed one can also find other ways of courtship, romance and friendship which are usually more helpful to the individual.

How will you help others who believe in traditional mindset and how will you advise them? Afterall it is like sitting for SAT which many believe is compulsory and unavoidable, to face the standards which are not necessary for living or getting a job or being to take care of one another.
It is import to liberate and open each others mind and support one another especially those in different environments. and situations that might not enable them


as per maid for sale video : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qxz-vmbFXd4
many governments will ignore laws that are placed to protect civilians. having call lines are unhelpful when one is disabled by organisations that they themselves are bribed and enabling the industry by slow or poor response and even failing to bail and return them back to safety;
at times like these, collecting more evidence and supporting non profit organisations that have no ties to big tech or governors to collect enough evidence in the case to even open a law suit against them.
reperations are not enough when the damage is done,
families and brainwashing rituals that support the "good mentality" of family, as if a puppetshow that coincides with the "truth" that they believe can't be halted by simple laws and needs more family to step in and support one another, and even provide each other in times of need.
by advising and supporting fellow indians not to follow forced marriages, and giving them support and resources would be helpful; i.e. giving them the strength to pursue conflict and provide shelter during since these laws.. are???
https://www.girlsnotbrides.org/child-marriage/india/ (not addressing of age forced marriages)
https://www.bustle.com/…/89136-6-indian-womens-rights-organ…
MANUFACTURING CONSENT THROUGH BIASED INFORMATION IS NOT CONSENT, if one culture enables arranged marriage and many more do not, there is more than one choice. and an autonomous decision is not the conformity of "good" opinion of others, but of oneselves when one is first empowered in a situation out of arranged marriage (i.e. not being told how they are going to marry from young, i.e. let me introduce you to sex jobs since young, is your consent manufactured?
https://www.unchainedatlast.org/about-arranged-forced-marr…/
https://www.nationalgeographic.com/…/child-brides-marriage…/

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